My friend sent me this poem and I sort of love it a lot. So I'm sharing it with you as well!
I don't know who it is written by... sorry!
I asked God to take away my pride, and god said, "No."
He said it was not for him to take away, but for me to give up.
I asked God to make my suffering child whole, and God said "No."
He said her spirit is whole, her body is only temporary.
I asked God to grant me patience, and God said "No."
He said that patience is a by-product of tribulation, it isn't granted; it's earned.
I asked God to give me happiness, and God said "No."
He said He gives blessings. Happiness is up to me.
I asked God to spare me pain, and God said "No."
He said suffering draws you apart from worldly cares and brings you closer to Me.
I asked God to make my spirit grow, and God said "No."
He said I must grow on my own, but He will prune me to make me fruitful.
I asked God if He loved me, and God said "Yes."
He gave me His only beloved Son who died for me. And I will be in Heaven someday because I believe.
I asked God to help me love others as much as He loves me.
And God said, "Ah, finally you have the idea."